
In Loving Memory
Margaret Ellen Hayes
1946 – 2025
Maplewood, Connecticut
Grandmother, gardener, and the warmest kitchen on Maple Street.
Created by her granddaughter, Claire
Margaret spent seventy-nine years making ordinary days feel like something worth keeping. She was born in a small mill town, the second of five, and learned early that a full table and an open door could hold a family together through anything.
For thirty-one years she taught second grade, and there is a whole generation in this county that still remembers the sound of her reading aloud. She retired to her garden, her crossword, and a rotating cast of grandchildren who knew that her back door was never really locked.
She loved deeply and quietly — in casseroles left on porches, in birthday cards that always arrived a day early, in the way she remembered every name. She is gone now, but the habits of kindness she planted are still coming up all over the place.
A few of their favorite things
- Favorite saying
- “Sit down, you look hungry.”
- Favorite place
- Her back garden at first light
- Favorite recipe
- Peach cobbler, no written recipe
- Favorite song
- “Moon River”
- Favorite pastime
- The Sunday crossword, in pen
- Favorite bloom
- Dahlias, the bigger the better